was / were to have done sth.表示未曾实现的计划。例如:We were to have told you, but you were not in.我们本来想告诉你的,但是你不在家。根据上下文意思可以判断应该用was to have这一项。
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表示一个假设,他本来是可以参加的完整的是was to have joined in my discussionwas to 表示过去想要去干嘛have joined 表示能参加但没有参加