It's better than choosing a girl you love to choose a girl that loves you.If one day you find that she may not love you,you will be broken. 望采纳。
Better chose a person who loves you than a person you love, you will be upset when you discover that you are not who he/she loves.
Choose a person who knows what you like, or you can choose a person who likes you, and if you find that she may not like you one day, you will be very sad.